How To Have Sexual Intercourse With Your Wife ~ Islamic Aspects ~

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How Islam describe sex TAKE YOUR TIME AND GO THROUGH IT. It add knowledge to those who have more and enlighten others as well

We Rarely hear Of Sex being talked about By our Alims and Scholars out Of SHYNESS or its SENSITIVITY.

This is an Important Topic in our lives as MUSLIMS. Insha Allahu, we will leave out Shyness and Enlighten ourselves on this

First of all, The only QUALIFICATION or CERTIFICATE for sex is MARRIAGE.

Any Sex out of Marriage is ZINA except with whom your RIGHT Hand possess.

Being an Adult doesn't Mean Sex is your Right except Marriage which is the Only Rightful platform for HALAL SEX

Now How Are We to sex our Wives according to SUNNAH ?

The Prophet (saw) is reported by Anas bin Malik to Have said ;

One of you should not fulfill ones (sexual) need from ones wife like an ANIMAL rather there should be between them FOREPLAY of kissing and words.

Sex without Foreplay is Equated to CRUELTY. It is the way of Animals.

The Wife also has some needs to be fulfilled. This is where Caressing, Kissing, Sucking the Nipples, Stimulating The Breasts, Fingering and the Likes come in.

This is what Foreplay Means

But Bare in mind That ANAL SEX (penetration through the ANUS) is highly forbidden in Islam.

ORAL SEX (Licking the Sex organs) is undesired and Disliked but not HARAM.

Oral sex Health-wise could be Dangerous sometimes.

Women have Active and unharmful VAGINAL bacterials and a Natural pH within their genitals which makes it Not Sound to be licked by the Tongue or Kissed.

This Varies from Woman to Woman regarding the Nature and Hygiene Levels.

Fellatio/Fellacio or Sucking of the Male genital by the Woman is also considered Unharmful by Medical practitioners and Acceptable in Islam although opinions Vary in this Regard.

BATHING AND BEING CLEAN is the first thing to consider before carrying on with it.

Personal Health and Hygiene conditions also counts.

SEX during the Menstruation period of a Woman is HARAM to the highest level.

Sex positions are Also allowed so Far as penetration is in the VAGINA. The doggy, spooning,missionary position and others are all Allowed.

There are no Rules as to how foreplay is to be done. The only laws are the ones reached by the LOVERS

THE only general rules are those that go against the SHARIAH rules, which goes against wishes of the Husband or the Wife.

As for the Role of A woman in sexual Foreplay, SCHOLARS have praised a Woman who discards Shyness when she is with Her HUSBAND.

Imam Muhammad al Baqir says;

The Best Woman Among You is the one who discards the ARMOR of Shyness when with Her Husband and puts on the ARMOR of shyness when she dresses up.

If you are a Malama, when it comes to that, Forget about Your "Malama things" and OPEN FIRE

Don't come near your Husband with "HIJAB or NIQAB" or some rough dressing.

At that moment those are indecent.

"DRESS TO KILL" your husband.

Dresses which exposed your Breasts, Your Backside Shape, Transparent dresses and Tight dresses

After all, Modesty and Chastity in public is the Hallmark of Muslim lady not In her Husbands Room.

All these Sayings show that, the Husband and Wife Should feel completely free when they are engaged in Mutual Stimulation or FOREPLAY.

Wives Should not Just lie down like "A piece of WOOD" but Must be Responsive in Foreplay.

Make Your Husband Enjoy The Woman in you and He will not Go Chasing Others.

Likewise is not Recommended to rush in Sex. Mutual pleasure and Satisfaction are also important.

The Shariah Allows lovers to see, Touch, Smell or Kiss any part of the body. Oral sex is also allowed although Disliked.

Some Restrictions in SEX according to Shariah

Anal sex is HARAM. My Brother don't go there at all, The front side is enough.

Sex During Menstrual period. This is also HARAM to the Highest extent. Q2:222.

And u can meet your wife anytime of the day, be it morning, afternoon, evening and night.Q2:223.

Do you know it's an act of Ibadah which mean u will be rewarded the more you do it. 

It does no harm by sharing or without sharing but through sharing it would benefit others. It would add knowledge to the wise

Jazakum Allahu Khairan Wa Barak Allahu Feekum